11 Life Lessons most people Learn Too Late in lIfe
This article and video is to discuss the 12 Life Lessons most people Learn Too Late that some of us may experience and with hindsight do things differently.
11 lessons in life, most people learn too late to live without regret sounds like a simple quote. However, it is harder to accept in reality. In fact, there are many lessons in life. Most people learn too late.
It does not mean that people are at fault and realizing it after it happened. It is more because the lessons are often learned only after a misfortune occurs. Here is a list of 12 life lessons. most people learn way too late in their lives.
Do You Relate to Any of These?
See if you relate to one or more of these points, one not being present, the simple fact of living in the present is not as easy as it seems. Expectations and future goals often make people forget to enjoy the present.
This happens a lot especially to workers who spend more than half of their days working focusing on the task and believing that it will relieve misery in the future, does not mean people can enjoy.
1.Be Present in the Moment
The present start being more aware of your surroundings appreciate every little thing around you and feel your breathing living in the present is really good for people to feel more content.
2. Opt for a Quiet Peaceful Life
More peaceful and less driven to settle for less security is a good thing to secure. For the future, however, finding security for the present is likely to result, in regret. Settling for less applies to many fields from choosing a life partner to choosing a career.
3. Settling for Less
The urge to settle for Less occurs because people, especially in their mid-20s, are experiencing a crisis of goals and a balancing passion and social expectations. Most often people choose the latter because they want to fit in only to regret their decisions later in life 3.
4. Procrastination About Important Decisions
Holding back decisions, there is a saying that it is better to try than never fully know the experience. Some people experience, fear and anxiety even to the level when these emotions them. People are too afraid to take on an unfamiliar path or to try something new, because they fear change as a result.
There are not any experiences gained and we miss what could be a stepping stone that will take us to a better living situation. This is often one of the lessons in life. People realize way too late for getting priorities.
5. Being Driven By Our Peer Group In Our Early Years
This actually happened to me, I wanted to be a Doctor and stayed on in school to get my science A-Levels, but a trip abroad to relatives distracted me form this goal. They were all wealthy business people, and I thought I could do the same, but it wasn’t what I really wanted to. Years later I am still regretting it. So go for what you really want in your gut.
Right more people will come into your life as you enter teenage years and adulthood, you start making friends and eventually become independent, the sense of freedom and knowing we have so many people around us may lead to wrong priorities.
We often prioritize friends more than family because we have been with our family since we were born, and so their presence is taken for granted. People eventually realize that parents and siblings do not live forever once they have had their time.
We only regret not spending much time with them, make sure not to discover this lesson in life later than you should five staying in a toxic relationship. Most people stay in a toxic relationship for various reasons.
They do not want to lose a certain part of their lives when they decide to let go of a toxic relationship either with a spouse or a friend. Staying in a toxic relationship will only damage your mental health and lessen your chance to find happiness.
6. Worrying about what other people who dont really matter think
If the person is not right for you, you may as well leave now, while you still have a chance. Six caring too much about people’s opinions. There are certain expectations built in society that expect each of us to turn into something that meets their standards.
However, people are too unique and diverse. We cannot put all of them in the same box or the same category. Otherwise not everyone will fit in the box. Sadly, so many of us care too much about other people’s, opinions and instead of living, our true selves people wear masks.
One of the lessons in life is that the facade is not worth the time since, no matter what people do. Others will judge you, so it’s better, to be true to yourself: 7 chasing money, instead of knowledge being materialistic in a world where capitalism rules make some people give up on education and go on their way to earn money for a living.
7. Get the Right Education For the Future You really Want
Again I went to do a Business Studies Degree instead of following my heart by becoming a Doctor and tried to go against my own ambition and desires, to impress my family that I could also be a wealthy Businessman.
While this choice is sometimes unavoidable, people learn later that it is also important to pursue education and gain knowledge. Knowledge is essential to sustain life in the long term, while money does buy happiness, knowledge can help.
8. Don’t Waste Money and Save for the Future
One of the life lessons I wish had not to squander so mouch money in my youth, if had saved some I would be much better off now.
You manage your money to have even more happiness. Make sure you balance feeding your tummy and feeding your brain, because learning is timeless 8, not having enough faith in fate. This is the case with people who are experiencing the low side of life.
In this phase, people often think that there is no way out to solve their problems. In extreme cases, some people choose a permanent solution over a temporary problem. The fate, however, always has its way of turning the chaos back into order.
Some problems are eventually solved. You either change or learn one of the precious lessons in life after overcoming the storm 9 being limited by age. In certain cultures, people are limited by age. Women are perceived as passed their expiry date after 25 and considered less desirable.
Former men in general are considered weird for having interests associated with youngsters. Only the truth is age is just a number. You can do anything without thinking. You are running out of time. The time is entirely up for you to decide 10, not asking for help.
When you need it being independent, surely is a great virtue. That does not mean you. Don’t need anyone in your life. Ask for help. If you really need it, you’re, not being a burden to people. In fact, some people are glad to know someone depends on them.
9. Help Yourself By Helping Others
Helping each other is proven to be very effective in improving a relationship, therefore, do not hesitate to ask for help when it is necessary. Take it as one of the lessons in life. You do not need to regret in the future 11, not traveling the world traveling the world has to be one of the best experiences anyone could have while visiting another country itself provides a fresh view and scenery.
10.Travel More and Widen Your Horizons
The important lesson in life learned from travelling is the ability to appreciate and respect different cultures and perspectives. It opens the eyes to the unusual things we do not often find at our homeland and learn from other people in the world
Therefore, before it is too late plan to travel the world 12, not standing up for your beliefs, are you afraid to speak up for what you believe in some people hold certain strong beliefs about certain causes? While you can see, many people are being bold.
Others do not feel brave enough, they are being too careful of speaking out loud because they are anxious about the backlash it comes with. There is definitely nothing wrong with and it is relieving to stand up for your beliefs before you regret bottling them up.
The bottom line is regret, is often inevitable, but time keeps flowing. So you have a chance to avoid not letting the lessons in life come too late by recognizing all these regrets and lessons you can make premeditated plans to make the best of your life.
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