9 Tricks On How To Be Happy And Confident

9 Tricks on How to be Happy and Confident

Avoiding these 9 Habits shows How to be Happy and Confident in any Situation

Confidence some people are born with an innate streak of confidence whilst it takes a little time for others to develop confidence as they develop from children into adults but there will be times when your confidence.

It takes a knock right it’s common to feel like you wish your confidence was better while other things that are out of control may impact your confidence such as other people it’s important to know which things you are in control of and how you can prevent yourself from destroying your own confidence

Avoid these 9 habits that show you How to be Happy and Confident

  1. You care too much about what other people think how many times have you said to yourself i don’t care what other people think about me honestly the tally isn’t quite encouraging is it no that’s okay it’s common to care about what other people think especially for trying to impress them as human beings you want to be liked and respected by others however when you value other people’s thinking and opinion above your own and change your behavior to reflect what you think others want to see you’re doing more harm than good to yourself
  2. Negative thinking I’m not good enough I can’t do this you’ve had one too many of those days haven’t you you become what you think if you always think you’re not good enough then you’ll never be confident do you have thoughts that you can never get that promotion even though you are qualified that’s negative thinking indulging in pessimism creates a self-fulfilling prophecy oh boy yeah you’re gradually destroying your self-confidence with all of these thoughts reframing those negative thoughts to say i am good enough to get this job and I need to show my skills can reinforce a more positive mindset.

3. it’s crucial to focus on what you can do instead of worrying about the outcomes that you can’t control number three social media living do you compare your lifestyle with your friends on social media or how many times have you thought that your social media life is better than your own life the pretty pictures people paint on social media as we know are not always as they appear to be if you consistently find yourself comparing yourself to others and living in your own version of reality and only putting out what you want the world to see then you may notice that this has an impact on your confidence in the real world once you start to understand that this is not what everyday lives are like then you should start to feel more grounded number four self-deprecating talk when you diminish what you do you’re taking shots at your self-confidence if every time you speak in a personal or professional setting and you say that you’re not that great you’re diminishing your worth and value when you’re constantly communicating that you’re not that great it’s bound to make you feel less than confident writer instead of Happy and Confident.

4. S Lewis once said humility is not thinking less of yourself but it’s thinking of yourself less so remember that and try not to confuse humility with self-deprecation

5. The blame game is your favorite sport when you find yourself in a situation that you are not happy with such as the job that you hate do you tend to find excuses and blame everybody else or everything else for what is happening this destroys your self-esteem and you feel less confident about being able to manage your situation you’ll need to develop an exit plan for your self-esteem in his video how to beast explains this idea of blaming acts as a defense mechanism so rather than pass the blame taking ownership of your situation should jumpstart your confidence fingers crossed be more Happy and Confident

6. You set the bar low for yourself when you disclaim I’m not very good at this so don’t have any expectations it immediately makes others question your ability disqualifying yourself verbally reassures you that others won’t have high expectations from you and won’t be disappointed but by setting yourself at this level naturally your confidence is going to be low as is your sense of value so when you put confidence on it it instills confidence in others about you as well be able to feel Happy and Confident.

7. Thinking that you don’t have anything to say or contribute to a discussion why don’t you tend to get involved in conversations at work or at social events is it because you don’t believe that you have anything meaningful to add maybe well this too is destroying your confidence as you may feel like people will be bored of what you have to say or that they’ll think that you’re not smart yeah or they’ll make fun of me this is a story that you’ve told yourself and you’ve started to believe that it’s true it may be that the topic of conversation is not something that you’re particularly interested in or know a lot about but it should not be allowed to cost you your confidence okay

8. You dismiss compliments guilty as charged right yeah me too we often receive compliments by deflecting or shying away from accepting them because we’re embarrassed or we don’t believe the comment by deflecting we’re not only selling ourselves short but challenging the judgment of the person complimenting us accepting compliments graciously doesn’t make you an egomaniac we can accept compliments graciously and take them on board when developing our confidence and

9. Ruminating ever find yourself repeatedly going over what you didn’t get right or situations you didn’t like an example of this may be that you continuously think about something you said during a presentation to your work colleagues rumination is taking thinking to another dimension altogether even though thinking is considered necessary for problem-solving ruminating is focused on the problem and not on finding the solution in her article for Forbes Jaime Kaluga wrote that when you ruminate on your poor decisions or setbacks consistently even the most confident people can struggle at times and it’s perfectly normal you are unique individuals with different skills so use them to your advantage using positive affirmations every day where possible can help to remind you of your strengths and what you want to develop do any of these

But there will be times when your confidence takes a knock, right? It’s common to feel like you wish your confidence was better. While other things that are out of control may impact your confidence, such as other people, it’s important to know which things you are in control of and how you can prevent yourself from destroying your own confidence and thus not being Happy and Confident.

” You are unique individuals with different skills. So use them to your advantage. Using positive affirmations every day where possible can help to remind you of your strengths and what you want to develop.

Do any of these describe your experience? Or did any of these points describe you? If you have any comments or feedback regarding this video on Happy and Confident, please leave them in the comment box below. We love hearing back from our viewers and your feedback.

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